We met in the summer of 2008 while working at the YMCA. From the beginning, our connection was strong. Within a year, Tremayne proposed, and just six months later, we were married. We were young, in love, and ready to take on the world.

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But marriage has a way of revealing the deepest parts of ourselves... both the good and the hard truths. In our first year, we nearly got divorced over a dog. That was just the beginning of the challenges we would face.

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Despite the struggles, we built a life together and a shared passion for fitness. In 2011, we launched our first business, helping hundreds of people fall in love with fitness and turn it into a lifestyle. As our community grew, we wanted to give them more... a gym of their own. So, in 2015, shortly after having our first child, we opened our first facility.

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We thought we were on the right path, but life had other plans.

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The transition wasn’t easy. Nearly 95% of our members didn’t want the change, which forced us to rethink everything... our business model, our finances, and how we provided for our family. Around the same time, we found out we were expecting another child. What should have been a joyful time was overshadowed by financial devastation when we discovered our financial advisors had been stealing from us. The aftermath led to tax issues, an audit, and mounting stress. To add to it, both of our in-laws moved in due to financial hardship. The pressure was relentless.

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By year seven, we hit our breaking point.

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We were two people living under the same roof, completely checked out. We had no communication, no connection, and resentment had taken over. Cass became physically and verbally abusive, and neither of us knew how to fix it. We were holding on by a thread, running on fumes, and trying to survive.

Something had to change.

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We sought help, and it wasn’t easy. It cost us time, effort, and a lot of money, but we committed to the process. We learned how to hear each other without judgment. We built a communication system that worked for both of us. We discovered how to truly support one another through our differences, our personalities, and our love languages. We prioritized our marriage, our home, and the foundation of our family.

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And the work paid off.

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Today, we don’t just have a marriage... we have a partnership, a foundation, and a love that is stronger than ever. We have faced financial struggles, health challenges, and unexpected storms, but through it all, we have fallen deeper in love.

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That is why we are on a mission.

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We know what it’s like to feel disconnected, resentful, and on the edge of calling it quits. And we also know what it takes to rebuild, reconnect, and restore your marriage to something even greater than before.

Back to Us: Weaponize Your Marriage isn’t just a program... it’s a movement. A commitment to doing the work, showing up for your marriage, and fighting for the love that brought you together in the first place.

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If you feel like you’re just going through the motions... if your marriage feels like a partnership but not a deep, intimate connection... if you know you love each other but don’t know how to get back to that place...

We’re here to tell you... it’s possible.

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And we’re here to help you get there.